Big Idea: The secret of happiness comes from within but is expressed with open hands. “Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life”.  Proverbs 4:23 ESV. Generosity of forgiveness begins in the heart.

Introduction. The story of the rich young ruler reveals his heart. He was a good and likeable man, and Jesus loved him, but he was bound up by a closed heart, and as a result, missed out on God’s gift of forgiveness and the freedom that an open heart gives.

Scripture: Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants.  When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made.  

So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt.

But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, Pay what you owe.So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, Have patience with me, and I will pay you.He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt.

When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place.

Then his master summoned him and said to him, You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you? 

And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt.  So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”
Matthew 18:23-35 ESV

There is no limit to the number of times we are to forgive others.
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. Matthew 18:21-22 ESV

Forgiving those who’d hurt and offended him, prepared Joseph for a miraculous future.
Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Come close to me.” When they had done so, he said, “I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt! And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will not be plowing and reaping.

But God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance. So then, it was not you who sent me here, but God. He made me father to Pharaoh, lord of his entire household and ruler of all Egypt.” Genesis 45:4-8 NIV

Forgiving our debtors frees us from self-imprisonment.
And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt.  So also, my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”
Matthew 18:34-35 ESV 

Forgiving our families who’ve hurt us opens new doors of opportunity “… yet I appeal to you on the basis of love. I then, as Paul–an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus– I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains…So if you consider me a partner, welcome him as you would welcome me. If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me.” Philemon 1 NIV 

Forgiveness opens the doors to heaven.
While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” Then he fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” When he had said this, he fell asleep.
Acts 7:59-60 NIV 

Forgiveness is not complete until we forgive ourselves.
Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”  John 8:10-11 NIV

Forgiveness opens the way to a second chance.
A man had a fig tree planted in his vineyard, and he came seeking fruit on it and found none. And he said to the vinedresser, Look, for three years now I have come seeking fruit on this fig tree, and I find none. Cut it down. Why should it use up the ground?8 And he answered him, Sir, let it alone this year also, until I dig around it and put on manure. Then if it should bear fruit next year, well and good; but if not, you can cut it down.’”  Luke 13:6-9 ESV